2010 is my year of learning the TRUTH
Yesterday was a very interesting day. It was full of revelation for me when it comes to a certain person in my family. I have been told things prior to yesterday from other people that were mutual friends of us in one point and time, but yesterday not only did I discover these things from 2 different people, the things that I was told were worse than I thought. When I think back at the incidences of the past related to this foul individual and how I stuck my neck out trying to protect her. Cursing people out in her defense and ready to got to war for her, I feel so stupid now because each time that I did it was because of the negative rumors she was spreading about me.
These people told me how this person has spread rumors to so many people making me out as the infinite whore of the Earth. On top of that she tells people I am an awful mother as well. I can’t believe I allowed this person to stand beside me in my wedding. This person wouldn’t even wear the dress I choose, but instead wore a horrible dress that was cheaper which did not work with her figure. She was the worst looking individual in my wedding party. Everyone looked better, and she looked like she didn’t even belong there. SMH. Ruined my wedding from her selfishness and on top of that she spreads more rumors about me than my worst enemy. I have never been around anyone in my life as fake as she.
I thought my baby father was a two-faced bastard, but man she’s won 1st place in that department. I have no idea how to deal with this situation. I want to disown her period. All that I have done for her and all she does is talk about me and everyone else in the entire family, but I am the one she talked about the worst of all.
I don’t even know if confronting her will be beneficial at all because it seems that my own parents are so caught up in the loop under her spell of deceit that no matter what I say, they will always be on her side. I am so hurt and angry. 2010 has become the year of learning the truth for me.
I know one thing, I will not continue to be the fool. What would you do if you were me? Any advice?
If that’s one thing that I’ve learned is that most people can’t be trusted. I have had many friends enter and exit my life and I don’t really have too many reliable friends. The only person you can depend on is yourself.
I agree with Shannon. The only person that you can depend on is yourself. I’m sorry that this had to happen to you but at least now, you know the truth. Sometimes the truth is hard to swallow but is mandatory, nonetheless. If I were in the situation, as I have been, I wouldn’t even confront her about it. I will just let it go because she’ll probably only deny it which will probably make you even more angry because she doesn’t want to be responsible for her actions. Just let it go, and pray on it. Pray FOR her. It’s obvious she needs some guidance. Good luck!
i’m in that process of learning friend from foe and who can and can’t be trusted. the only person you can trust is yourself it seems like it.. idk I agree with Shannon totally.