I’ve been keeping in close contact with my judges bailiff and scheduler for my divorce as well as consulting an attorney for advice or what steps to take next. They have all been very helpful and have helped me greatly. So why the title? Well Brian always seems to not surprise me at all. I filed for a divorce on May 17th and found out that the certified letter sent to him was unclaimed. I knew he would do that though, I expected it. So I had to go BACK downtown and ask that he be served by regular mail. I will then get my court date. Of course I don’t think he will show up for anything at all because of how ignorant and uncooperative he is. That will be his lost though. If he wants to be stupid then that’s on him.

I also plan on suing him for my computer as well. My landlord will probably be suing him for the lease too. Either me or the landlord, or both of us. I will make sure that I will at least pay my half of the lease and keep my receipts so when it comes down to that the judge will see that I paid my half. Brian owes $3000 to the landlord for the remainder of the lease from June 2010-January 2011. He will have to pay either me or the landlord. It’s so crazy, the landlord has been trying to contact him for a month and Brian’s been ducking and dodging him. He finally got him at work and turns out Brian shut his phone off and claimed that his name wasn’t on the lease. CRAZY!! How the hell is your name not on the lease? Does he really think I’m going to just let him stick me with all the bills while he just goes on his merry way like nothing happened? The landlord said he acts like he doesn’t have a care in the world, but it’s okay. He can keep acting unconcerned. He tells the landlord we are getting a divorce, which doesn’t matter because he still owes money on the lease regardless of the situation. It’s funny, he can proclaim that we are getting a divorce, but fails to claim his divorce papers so we can get a divorce. This fool refused to even give me his address!

I really just can’t wait until I have my divorce finalized. If I have to get a lawyer to take over I will, but hopefully consulting one for advice will be enough. I wish I never got married to him. This was the biggest mistake of my life. There are so many secrets he kept about himself that I should have known prior to getting married to him because I never had a choice, and if I was given that choice, I would have NEVER married him at all. The best thing I can do now, is focus on me and the kids. I am now in the process of picking up the pieces that are left after Brian’s destructive actions. I have to get what assistance I need, work as much as my pregnant body will allow me to and get prepared for this new baby. I know one thing though, you may think I am wrong, but Brian can FORGET about seeing this child. He doesn’t care about him/her anyway and the ONLY way he’d see this child is if he had a judge order him visitation rights to do so.