Filed for Divorce
All I can say is I am one step closer to being totally free from Brian Crayton. I can’t wait until the court grants the divorce so I can move forward without any marital connection to him what so ever. I have to say, going down there and filing the paperwork gave me a feeling of relief. One step closer…
So let me tell you about what happened before I went down there to file:
I had to get an Affidavit of Indigency (Poverty affidavit) notarized, so I went to my bank since it’s free if you have an account. On the affidavit you have to put down your assets so I asked the notary/banker to tell me my account balance. She looked at the joint account which I closed yesterday. Brian has been screwing up my account ever since I added him to it so I did this asap. Anyways, I noticed that he must have opened a new account because there was $6 in the account that he transferred to his account leaving a 0 balance. I really didn’t care about that, but I just wanted to be off the account and since they wouldn’t take me off without him signing for it I was advised to close it. To get to the point of all this, when I asked the banker/notary for the account balance today, she tells me my joint account is negative(I was really asking for the balance of my separate account btw)! How the hell is that? Wanna know why? Because his triphlant butt, after cleaning out the bank account and knowing I was going to close it, swipes the card at his job for $1.62 making the account negative in the total of $-39.12. Now we are both responsible for this balance, and that was the reason why I closed the account in the first place. I don’t want to be in the CHEX system or have my credit messed up thanks to him, he’s already done enough damage as it is. I texted him and of course he didn’t respond, he doesn’t care anyways, I’m sure he did this on purpose. Anyways, I talked to a banker whom was sympathetic to my situation and took the overdraft fee off. She then canceled his card so he couldn’t use it anymore and told me that one of us has to come in and deposit $1.62. Of course his triphlant non-caring behind isn’t going to do it, so I will. I will pay whatever I need to pay to be free of him.
I am so glad I filed for divorce. I will finally be able to move on with my life…
It sounds like you’re with CHASE. They always have a ridculous fee schedule if you go over by $.50! It’s a good thing that you were able to get the overdraft fee waived and you only have to pay $1.62.
Good luck with everything–divorces can be really messy. I do wish you the best. You don’t need any unnecessary stress.
I wish you the best of luck with everything! I swear, sometimes I can’t even stand my own bank because they happen to mess things up at the most inconvenient times.