Today I went to Best Buy to price some new speakers for my car when I get the money to buy them. I had to drive in crazy rush hour traffic on the expressway to come home which sucked after leaving Best Buy. While I sat in the slow hardly moving traffic I noticed a beautiful rainbow in the sky. You don’t see too many of those in Ohio…well I never saw one in Ohio…I think I did once, but I’m not for sure.

The last time I was in Florida I saw a rainbow when I was at the airport. Now that I live here I guess that’s something to get used to. I wanted another picture because the rainbow was so pretty so I pulled over when I got off the expressway and took a few pictures.

While I was taking pictures some guys with “gold teeth” (yuck) in their mouth pulled up and the one that was driving asked me if I wanted him to take some pictures of the rainbow for me. I told him no and then he asked me where I was from. “Is it that obvious?” Anyways I told him and went back to taking more shots of the rainbow. He then asked me if I would like him to show me around. I told him no, but then he insisted. To get rid of him I told him to give me his number and I’d call him. So he did…nice try, but the gold teeth and me having a boyfriend pretty much ruined your chances.

I usually do that when a guy gives me a difficult time to get rid of so to get rid of them I ask them for their number. Try it…it never fails. If they ask you out to dinner or breakfast, like when your at the club or a party. Say no or make up an excuse like “I can’t right now, but give me your number and I might call you later.” Key word might. Using the “I have a boyfriend.” Doesn’t work 90% of the time because guys just don’t have respect for peoples relationships anymore. That goes for girls too.

In depth…

You see when you tell a guy that was trying to “talk” to you you have a boyfriend and then he says something along the lines of “Well you can have friends can’t you?”, what he really means is “I don’t care if you do. We can talk on the side and when you’re vulnerable I will use that to my advantage.” If he approached you in the beginning in the anticipation of dating you then that’s where he’s mind is at. He doesn’t want to be your friend, but your “booty-call” on the side.

I’ve tried the just friends thing before and every guy turned out to be still trying to date me in the end…so trust me. I know from experience.

If your the “bitch” type though then just drop him like a bad habit leaving his dignity destroyed and keep on stepping. If I’m in a really bad mood I may have done that once or twice.