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Disclaimer: So I haven’t talked about my marriage at all for a while, but today I am going to let it all out. Everything, so please bear with me, this is going to be a very intense and rather long post. If you don’t have tough skin, I’d advise you not to read it. Also, if you have a rude comment and you don’t like what you are reading, I’d advise you not to leave a comment at all. It will not appear on this site and you will be blocked. Thank you.

To start off my so-called triphlant, husband walked out on me 2 days ago. As many of you may know, I am 6 months pregnant and I am not working. We stay in a 3 bedroom home paying gas and electric, along with $750 for rent. This nigga claimed he was leaving because I so-calledly keep accusing him of cheating. Mind you I never accused him, but I have asked him about certain things, with good cause.

Let’s start off with his weird a suspicious behavior:

He won’t let me wash his clothes. You heard right. He keeps his clothes in the room leaving a disgusting scent from them piling up in there because he won’t put them in the hamper to let me wash them. I asked him about it and he claimed it was because the hamper was full. IF that was so then it wouldn’t be a large pile of whites on the floor in his room.

He had a cell phone I didn’t know about. There is no excuse he or anyone else can give me to why you didn’t tell your wife whom is pregnant that you have a cell phone. His excuse was that he didn’t think it was important. AND to add insult to injury, he lies and claims his boss at work (whom is a man) bought it for him and put minutes on it. The phone had over 1000 minutes on it might I add. Now I know that is BS, unless your boss is gay and you two got something going on.

He is never at home. On his off days he leaves and stays gone until it gets dark. If he has to work later in the day, he leaves and goes somewhere. Every off day this nigga was up ironing clothes then leaves. On top of that he’ll tell me he’s going one place, but always ends up somewhere else.

Now let’s start with some more issues regarding him:

Nasty Habits. He likes to leave pubic hair all over the bathroom. When I go to shower there’s pubic hair’s all over the shower. On the windowsill and everything…YUCK! He doesn’t wash his hands after using the toilet. Instead he turns the sink on for 2 seconds (literally) and turns it off, to prove that he is so-calledly washing his hands. Doesn’t brush his teeth regularly. His breath always stinks and when he does brush he’s spitting out a mouth full of blood and his toothbrush bristles are always brown. Probably from having Gingivitis or something.

He owes over $7,900 in taxes. He claimed he didn’t know about this, but I believe he did, especially when you owe this much. My tax returns were seized when I stupidly filed joint with him and I had to go through hell and high water to get my money back.

He’s in the CHEX system. I didn’t know this either. I asked him because he had a CHASE access account. I put him on my account to help him out and he’s been over-drafting it ever since. My account is now over $170 overdrawn thanks to him. I asked the branch manager whom used to work for CHASE about the account he had with CHASE and he told me they only give those accounts to people that are in the CHEX system. SMH… What a liar. He told me he never had any bad banking history, he is such a liar! I think he has terrible renting history as well. I’ve never been evicted, but when we tried to get an apartment we either had to pay extra money or couldn’t get approved at all. This has never happened to me when I was on my own.

He has a mental illness I didn’t know about. My mom kept asking me to find out why he is receiving disability checks from Social Security. Come to find out, he’s receiving them because he was diagnosed with a Personality Disorder. This is why the navy discharged him. I went online and read the profiles and he fits perfectly in the Borderline Personality and Schizoid Personality Disorder. So fucking selfish! It would’ve been real nice for him to tell me this before we got married so I could have had a choice to get married and pregnant by a mentally retardant person.

 

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There’s a lot of other things that happened in the last months such as him cursing me out when I asked him why he wouldn’t eat my food, or telling him about how his snoring kept me up. When he walked out on me it was because I asked him about a woman calling the cell phone I knew nothing about. Instead of answering the question, he curses at me all in front of my kids as usual and storms all over the house. I one day had to walk up the hill, about a mile to my moms at 1am, 5 months pregnant with my 4 year old and 2 year old because when I asked him why he wouldn’t eat my food he told me to “shut the fuck up!”. He has no respect for me and it seems like anything will set him off.

He even missed the babies first doctor appointment and ultrasound. Every time we planned on going to an appointment concerning the baby he did something so he wouldn’t have to go. When I suggested childbirth classes, he showed no interest in doing that either. I really wish I hadn’t got pregnant by him. Why me? Why did I have to marry and get pregnant by the mentally unstable, cold-hearted, selfish bastard?!

On top of that my aunt bought a bed over for us because she saw that I was sleeping on the floor on a mattress. I had Brian put the bed up, and for about a week I was still sleeping on the floor while he slept in the bed my aunt bought. How triphlant is that? It actually took me to say something to him for me to sleep in the bed. The following day he walks out on me and the kids because he was up again on an off day ironing clothes as usual and someone called the house PRIVATE. He then got on the phone talking low and walking into the other room. When I asked him who it was he claimed it was something he filled out on the internet. I replied “Really?” he said yea and I left it alone. I don’t have time to be trying to figure shit out because if you’re doing something foul it will come out eventually. I went into the room to get Jeremiah and fix breakfast, Brian then starts yelling asking me what I meant by “Really?” I told him nothing, but he wouldn’t leave the situation alone so I asked him about the female calling the phone that I knew nothing about and then he starts yelling and cursing saying I’m accusing him. I told him I wasn’t accusing him and if he felt like everything he is doing is right then don’t worry about it. He says “I;m not doing everything right, but I’m not cheating!” I told him to just leave it alone. He wouldn’t and kept cursing in front of the kids packing his things and leaves. He came back the next day stole my computer and left again. Two days later he comes and takes all his clothes, birth certificate, and other papers and leaves claiming he’s not running away from the baby, he’s running away from me.

Now does this make any sense to you? Either he is mentally unstable, cheating, or on drugs because that is not a good enough reason to abandon your wife whom is pregnant. I guess you can say this is a blessing in diguise. I couldn’t stand him no way. I find him repulsive anyways, because he is so nasty and he looks so gross and out of shape nude. I didn’t even want to have sex with him because of how gross he looks to me. At first I could overlook his nasty body, but when you are cursing and being straight foul, those things just start to stick me in my side and I can’t ignore it.

I’m glad he’s gone, but now I have to figure out how I’m going to pay rent, and utilities. I know that the judge will make him pay the bills because he was in fact the breadwinner and he is obligated to pay. This is just such a shame. I thought my kids father was the worse man ever, but Brian fucking Crayton has topped the list big time in being the nastiest, most selfish, triphlant man I’ve ever met in my life.