http://www.eternally-me.com/tired-of-waiting A Digital Journal Sat, 17 Dec 2011 18:13:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.2 http://www.eternally-me.com/tired-of-waiting#comment-601 Lani Thu, 26 Feb 2009 18:01:47 +0000 http://sweetvanillasugar.com/tired-of-waiting/#comment-601 I have had the similar experience of working many jobs and being in the cold, while going to school. In my case, it was my father who got to have fun and enjoy his life, while I had to be responsible. Sometimes, things take a very long time to get better, and can feel like a long dull hurt. After 7 years working and going to community college in the free time I had, I finally got into university with a full scholarship. I got a better job with the better opportunities, managed to get an okay car that will drive me into the future of my hopes and aspirations. I have had the luck to have a few good friends who didn't try to change me or tell me to try harder as I was doing more than most people would do, under my circumstances, and with severe family challenges and stresses. I try to breathe, re-center and remember who I am in these moments. Try to remember that we are all more than our external experiences, or circumstances. That's stuff outside of yourself. You are a beautiful being & don't ever stop being who you are. Recognize and respect how much you have attempted and accomplished, and try not to compare yourself with others. We all have different challenges, different lessons, and experience our lives sometimes, not in the order we expect it to be in. Sometimes, all I can do is meditate and breathe through a day, and try again tomorrow. Being a warrior of the heart and mind is a challenge, and you are doing it. You are a beautiful soul, with such aspiration, and care and dedication. A lot of people do not have those qualities. Keep going. I have had the similar experience of working many jobs and being in the cold, while going to school. In my case, it was my father who got to have fun and enjoy his life, while I had to be responsible. Sometimes, things take a very long time to get better, and can feel like a long dull hurt. After 7 years working and going to community college in the free time I had, I finally got into university with a full scholarship. I got a better job with the better opportunities, managed to get an okay car that will drive me into the future of my hopes and aspirations. I have had the luck to have a few good friends who didn’t try to change me or tell me to try harder as I was doing more than most people would do, under my circumstances, and with severe family challenges and stresses. I try to breathe, re-center and remember who I am in these moments. Try to remember that we are all more than our external experiences, or circumstances. That’s stuff outside of yourself. You are a beautiful being & don’t ever stop being who you are. Recognize and respect how much you have attempted and accomplished, and try not to compare yourself with others. We all have different challenges, different lessons, and experience our lives sometimes, not in the order we expect it to be in. Sometimes, all I can do is meditate and breathe through a day, and try again tomorrow. Being a warrior of the heart and mind is a challenge, and you are doing it. You are a beautiful soul, with such aspiration, and care and dedication. A lot of people do not have those qualities. Keep going.

]]> http://www.eternally-me.com/tired-of-waiting#comment-583 Shannon Fri, 23 Jan 2009 04:46:51 +0000 http://sweetvanillasugar.com/tired-of-waiting/#comment-583 I know you probably hear this all of the time, but things will get better. I know exactly how you feel and sometimes it's tiring as hell. We must go through struggles to get where we want to be. I hope that everything works out for you. I know you probably hear this all of the time, but things will get better. I know exactly how you feel and sometimes it’s tiring as hell. We must go through struggles to get where we want to be. I hope that everything works out for you.

]]> http://www.eternally-me.com/tired-of-waiting#comment-582 David Thu, 22 Jan 2009 15:43:48 +0000 http://sweetvanillasugar.com/tired-of-waiting/#comment-582 waiting is always tough in life, so i also feel that waiting is always tough in life, so i also feel that

]]> http://www.eternally-me.com/tired-of-waiting#comment-581 Noelle Thu, 22 Jan 2009 12:58:20 +0000 http://sweetvanillasugar.com/tired-of-waiting/#comment-581 I seriously cannot stand waiting, it's one of my major pet peeves... I'm sure everything will be better in your life! I seriously cannot stand waiting, it’s one of my major pet peeves… I’m sure everything will be better in your life!

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